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And then they were married. |
Have
you
ever wondered why certain things happen when they do? I know I have.
People
often try to control their lives and future, but despite all the efforts
there is still very little we can’t control. We can control our attitudes and
behavior, but not the future--that's in God’s hand. The Bible says. “Many are the plans in the mind of man, but it is the Lord’s purpose that will prevail.” (Psalms 19:21)
In
the past
few months I have gotten to know Felipe (not Philippi) a little better.
He 44 years old and he had a problem in the distant past with drug
additions, but now he is free of that. It seems that
wherever I go we run into each other, whether its the beach or some
place downtown. I began to realize that God must have a reason for
this. Although he speaks very little English, we are still able to
communicate pretty well, and have become very good
friends. I have sown into his life and God has been changing his heart
and his
family’s, and they were all baptized a couple months ago, at their
church. Then about a month ago he
invited me to come to his wedding. Felipe and his wife have lived
together for many years and have two older daughters with children, plus
two younger boys, ages 8 and 12, But now he wanted to make their
marriage official.
Felipe had told
me they would be married on September 14th at the city courthouse,
and I could meet them first at their house. But then about a week before the wedding, I
met him again, while driving through Guaymas, and he told me the date had been
changed to the 11th at 8am. I said, “Eight in the morning,” and he said
yes. And I said, Okay? But I did not understand the reason why so early, yet I told him that I would make every effort
to be there, God willing. So the night before the wedding, I wanted to get a good night
sleep, but it didn’t happen. I woke up at 3am and laid awake for over an hour
talking to God and then I woke up at 6am. So I started to get ready and told
God again, that I would trust Him with everything that happens, and I receive it
as a gift and with thanksgiving. I had only been to Felipe’s house one time and it had been
a couple months since then. As a result, I had trouble finding it, so I prayed,
and God helped me to find it again.
When
I arrived at
his house, I was greeted by his children and grandchild at my van. When I
went in the house, I met Felipe (he always gives me a hug) and he
thanked me for coming. However, he told me the time had been
changed to 12noon. So I got to have a delicious breakfast with them, and
then I waited
while everyone got ready, including his daughter, Vanessa. She has an
adorable little five year old girl. Then her older sister, Lidia came
with two of her five children. I told her, she was very blessed.
However, not
one of them were able to speak English. Yet I could see from the
appreciation on their
faces that I was welcomed there and to share in this special event.
Then Felipe told me the
time had changed again to 10am, which I was grateful, because it was
getting much hotter outside. I was also asked to be an official witness, and asked if I had my ID with me, because they needed
four adult witnesses. I had ID, and I agreed to be a witness,
believing this was also God’s will. They all made me feel a part of
their family and I
enjoyed watching them get ready, especially the women doing their hair
and
putting on eye makeup while holding a large mirror, as I sat nearby. The
women all have big beautiful brown eyes and long eyelashes; the kind
that other women have to buy.
Then two
more friends came, they were elders from their Mormon church, wearing
suits and ties with their name tags on. One of them was 20 years old and his name was Byron Ricardo,
he was very friendly and could speak English every well, thank God. We got to know each other
better later that day.
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Vanessa's cute daughter, Valeria, who really likes me |
As
we all gathered to leave the house, I prayed a blessing on their
marriage, family and friend and to know the Heavenly Father better. Then
we all crammed into my van. (Another reason why I thought God
might want me there, because they did not have a car.) Felipe and his
wife, Angelica
sat in the front passenger seat, and her two daughters and the five
children, one still
in disposable diapers, all sat in back on my bed or on someones lap. The
two elders decided to walk the two miles to the courthouse.
Thank
God
the building was air conditioned, because we waited for over an hour.
But it was still
fun watching the children play as we talked and other friends came to
visit during this special occasion. A court official took copies of our
ID that Vanessa and I had
made, and filled out some forms. Then a little later we went into the
judge’s
room as witnesses with Philippi and his wife.
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Felipe and his wife, Angelica, me and Vanessa and Byron are sitting to the right |
Felipe and Angelica talked with the judge first, who was dress in a nice
gray suit and sat behind a large brown desk, as we all took turns signing five
copies of paperwork. (We took picture of this event and also out in the waiting
room, plus outside.) Then we all got in the van again and drove to Soriana, a
large grocery store.
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All of these people were in my van with me, except the one women in the red and white blouse. |
There we spent more time together as we sat and ate a beautiful decorated cake,
that was purchased from that store, and drank coke in the deli section where there were
tables for all of us to sit. This was such a wonderful time also, as we got to
know one another even better. That’s when I got the talk to Bryon for over an
hour. In the beginning he helped me communicate some things with Vanessa who
came and sat with us for a short time, and I really appreciated her interest. Then
I talked more to him about the Kingdom of God and His desires for the Mexican
people. I talk about the movie, States of Grace, which was a favorite of
his too. Then about religion and I could see he was not offended by
the things I shared and he agreed with me. He told me he had a hunger for God, and
wanted to know Him better too. I told him this was a Divine appointment, and
that he would see God change his life and others.
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A beautiful family |
Then
it came
time to go back to Felipe's house, we all got in the van again, plus
three elders. I would have loved to have taken a picture of that. But
they were cramped
and very hot, and I didn’t want them to be uncomfortable any longer than
necessary. When we got back to the house, we visited a little more.
Then I felt it was time for me to leave. However, I was asked when I
would come back again, so I told them next week, and then I offer to
take the elders back to
their house so they would not have to walk again. Before we left they
wanted to pray. And so we all knelt down in the living room and one of
the elders prayed. Wow! Then we said our good byes.
After dropping the men off, I heading back to San Carlos wondering what
would become of all this. Wow! God is truly full of surprises and His timing
and ways are always perfect.
What an
awesome day it turned out to be, disputed the time changes. We each
demonstrated love and kindness for one another, during a simple wedding. Makes me wonder, why so many
people spend so much time and money to do otherwise. When love and God's will is
the only thing that really counts. What a privilege and honor it was for me to be a part of this loving family.
* A
special thanks to Vanessa for helping me learn more about her family by
using my computer and a translator site. I thought I would stop writing
in September, but a lot has happened. God is full of surprises and
this was one of them. In the process I’m still meeting more and more
people and
touching lives for the Kingdom of Heaven. I have also been in Mexico one year on October 1st, and it has been awesome experience, but not as I had hoped. However, God says that will change and the promises are being fulfilled. All to the glory of God.